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The custom of escorting the bride and groom to the Chuppah is an ancient one. Throughout Jewish history, brides and grooms have been compared to kings and queens, who always appear with an entourage. The tradition of attendants continues to this day. Jewish Law does not fix the order of the procession and the number of participants. Some customs have continued over the years, and these may help serve as guides. The family may decide the order of the procession and who stands under the Chuppah. Non-Jews may be part of the wedding procession. Many families provide for a marriage coordinator to aid in facilitating these arrangements. Since Judaism has always emphasized the important role of parents, it is usual for the couple to be escorted by their parents or to have their parents stand at their side under the Chuppah. At the conclusion of the wedding ceremony, the bride and groom walk down the aisle together, followed in reverse order by those who participated in the processional. The shoulders of the bride and the women in her wedding party must be covered to reflect modesty. All men in the wedding party and in the congregation must wear a kippah or yarmulka. You may wish to buy color coordinated kippot imprinted with the date and names. These are available through your local Jewish bookstores or your party planner.
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